On Thursday last week, after 8 or 9 months of careful consideration, I asked Tatyana to move out.
I am not going to go into specifics, as I do not believe that it is appropriate to do so without Tatyana having an oportunity to respond.
All I will say, is that I felt the relationship was not working as well for me as it was for her. Thus, I have ended it.
It is going to take some time to eventuate the split, as I am offering Tatyana plenty of time to arrange alternative accommodation. I do not want to be a prick about it, as I don't dislike or hate Tatyana. I have just come to the realisation that we are not a good match for each other and it's best to terminate things now, prior to them developing into a hate fest.
I am totally OK in my head, unlike four years ago when I went through the split with Donna. This time, it has been my decision and I have had ample time to get my head around it. So, I am not in need of support or words of encouragement.
I just wanted to clarify things, so that when people are speaking with me, it doesn't come as a surprise or cause them any discomfort if it get's mentioned.
Once again, I would like to remind you, I am in a good place mentally & I am not posting in here due to needing encouragement or support.
Although, there is one thing which upsets me, but I won't mention it in here, as I know a certain person has been looking in here for clues and I do not want to allow this certain thing to be used as leverage against me.
