Maraach, I havn't weighed into this debate much, but I am reading your list of requirements and I just can't help but think you would be well served having a very serious look at a ZRX again. I know you have ridden one and know some of what they can do, but I am not sure you really understand the full potential of a ZRX.
Take my path to ZRX ownership as an example......here is sorta how it went.
I had a ZX9, which I was using to travel up and down Melbourne-Sydney and sometime Brisvegas also. I was like you, I loved the 9. But, my back was giving me curry at the time, so I thought I would invest in a tourer for this purpose and keep the 9 as my Sunday sports bike.
I ended up buying a BMW R1100RS. The R1100 was perfect for the use intended, but turned out to be an unreliable piece of shit which damn near killed me when the diff shat itself and locked up mid corner.
With that, I promptly sold it and ended up buying a ZRX1200S to fit with hard luggage and have as my interstater. Once I had picked it up, I decided to take it out for a Sunday run with the Melbourne Sportsbike Riders, who for the most part can steer PFG. If I want to pass one of the faster guys, I have to be on top of my game, even when riding a full on sports bike. These boys and girls can ride. Anyway, we get to the morning tea stop and I go over to a mate who I have ridden with for over 20 years and who usually has awesome derbies with me on every ride we do and asked why he was so slow today. His response surprised me as he reckons he was peddling as fast as he could and that the ZRX is a deceptively fast bike. He couldn't believe how well it turned and how well it held it's line once on it's side. Plus, add to that the lazy grunt it has and you have one very fast, very comfortable point to point bike! It has brilliant pillion accommodation, (Can also get pillion lowering pegs from the U.S. for them, being that your bride is blessed with height, to make her long svelte legs even more comfortable on a long haul), a comfortable pillion seat and with all that grunt, you tend not to notice the extra weight of the pillion (Not meaning that your bride carries extra weight, meaning the additional body on the bike

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OK, so some don't consider the image of the ZRX to be suitable and I get the fact that if fashion is an influencing factor, you don't have EFI, Upside downers, Radial calipers and M/Cylinder, Alloy frames etc., But put fashion aside and the ZRX is one mighty capable bike on the road.

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