
Seriously, give yourself more time for everything and start braking earlier - that's part of what weekendrider's smoother means. You might also be leaning too much on the bars when you're braking, try keeping your weight back a bit.
Good wet riding is smooth riding.
Smooth throttle control, smooth braking, smooth turns - it makes you a better dry rider.
Wet riding and DD weekends both are good for smoothing things out - on DD weekends for example I focused on maintaining corner speed, eg trying to do the speed limit the whole way through the OPH, including the corners.
If you find you can't smooth out your gear changes (really that is just practice) then short-shift in the wet.
The way I learnt to smooth out my shifts was to lightly load the gear lever before the gear change - ie load the lever, then pull the clutch in and change. Often the gear can/will pop in itself when the clutch comes in, just from the preload. As I said though it takes practice - like anything MC related (including crashing)
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