Black Magic wrote:Strika wrote: My father being the antiquated dinosaur he is, spelled out to me yesterday that he wants nothing to do with me, my daughter or my grandson! So, for the third time in my life he has tossed me out of the family home. Once at 15, then again at 18 and now at 40!

So, once again I am on the move. I'll post up once I have sorted my next move!

Geez Marty- you must be my long lost brother!! Sounds like my old man

They used to call me .05 at school! I was the punching bag that arsehole belted when he was pissed!!! It stopped when I was about 14! I got bigger than him and one night I just said "No more"!! He still had a go, but that night, HE had a ride in an ambulance!
On Monday when he went nuts, he threatened to "knock my block off"!

After I stopped laughing.....

.... I reminded him that I was no longer 10 and he was now 77!!!!!

I even offered him 4 free shots at me before I ripped his head off and took a crap down his geriatric neck!

But he decided he now wanted to call the police instead??

Silly bastard picks a fight and then wants the boys in blue to bail him out! I told him I wished I had the option to call the cops when I was 10! He didn't like that comment for some reason.

He then went on to tell me what a mongrel of a kid I was and that I deserved all of it and I had grown into a mongrel of a person!!!

I told him that I've never hit a kid or a woman, so if I'm a mongrel, he must be really low:lol: He went back to wanting to call the police. SO I asked him to go ahead and I would also have him charged with child abuse and assualt. He ran inside and locked the door instead!
Thank god I got some of my mothers Genes!
To be perfectly candid, Monday's happenings really didn't deter me or alter my positive outlook. I have been dealing with what he did and the scars of my childhood all my life and feel that I have a pretty good handle on it. I have never repeated any of his horrible behaviour so I must be doing OK! What did however get to me, was the discussion I had with my daughter on Tuesday when I went back over. I had no other option but to explain what had occured with her grandfather the previous day. At the end of re-telling the story, I made it very clear to her that no matter what she did, good or bad, I would always be there to support and assist her in any way, no matter what! I then went on to suggest that just because her grandfather and I do not get on, that she was welcome to continue developing a relationship with him. Her response made my heart sink!!

I hope I hid my feelings well enough from her, but what she said was "Don't worry Dad, I get the feeling he doesn't want anything to do with me anyway"

I was almost in tears. I wanted to jump in my car and go and do some damage to him!!! The worst of it is ...she is right!

How can any man deny their grandchildren??? Out of all this, that really is the only thing that has upset me. I couldn't care less if I never see or speak to him again, I honestly have never had any benefit from the relationship, so I don;t miss anything. But what he has done to my daughter is just unforgiveable. It broke my heart to see the look of pain in her eyes!

"I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me" Hunter S. Thompson.
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