Sorry for delay in responding - family etc. So a closing summary.
Replacement alternator seems to have sorted the ignition issue. Like everything once it's sorted it kinda makes sense and the breadcrumbs add up, but the symptoms made it incredibly hard to explain to a mechanic because it runs fine when I'm there or its being serviced.....so most think it fuel related.
- not a misfire, but the whole engine just completely loses power and splutters to a halt
- only happens when hot, need to let bike cool down to get running again. Worse in hot ambient conditions.
- only initially happened when running at a constant highway RPM (but got progressively worse)
It does seem like fuel, but if this is discounted then the alternator does seem an obvious culprit - and it does get hot. The over-charged battery was a big clue and the voltmeter really tells the story. Thanks to Gos who pointed that out. The fact that it occurs across all cylinders at the same time means that if it were coil failure (ignition or ignitor) than it would have to be both coils failing at exactly the same time. Possible , and Ignitor coils were next on the list BTW!
Anyway I now have a spare IC Box (handy) and with new ignition coils and leads bike starts and runs so much better. So good in fact that I no longer bother to run 98 fuel (thats all previous owner used) and the sound? Pure bliss.
As an interesting comparison my car recently had a similar running issue, no mechanical fault, starts and runs fine but no power up hills. After all the standard checks (spark, fuel, exhaust) the mechanic thought MAP sensor but a new one, new plugs, new coilovers etc. didn't fix it - instead made it worse! So bad it was un-drivable, so thought the only next option was to discount the ECU - and like the bike not especially easy finding a secondhand one to test the theory. In the end it turned out to be a catastrophic internal failure of the cat - which was less than 2 years old & didn't make any rattles.
A lesson I have learnt is that IC boxes and ECU's *can* fail, but in some ways the increased complexity of engines makes me forget to really look hard at the basics. If the bike had an alternator light (like most cars & probably modern bikes) I'm sure this would have lit up and I would have immediately looked at the alternator. And Kawasaki discontinued the alternator check function for the A8

All fun and games, learnt more about the bike and a big thanks to all that helped.
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