i got a pair of these at the bike show, they had an assortment of sizes, however i dont know if they make a ladies version, or you'd have to find one that was shrunk in the wash

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I love the name though, Shift
brawler.
linky.
Pretty comfortable so far, though ive only used them half a dozen times now. The first couple of long rides will leave black crap on your hands, but that seems to wash off quite easily. I just hope that it doesn't keep shedding material like that, which it seems to have stopped doing now. From the short time ive had them, would i recommend them? yes they are very comfortable and have armour that doesn't feel too uncomfortable. If i remember rightly there's also an armour plate on the base of the palm towards the base of the thumb, its not too intrusive though.
if that doesn't do it for you, perhaps the Shift Stealth Womens Glove?