Oh Thanks guys, I've now been enlightened
As I've said it happen 5 times, I've only got 2 of the broken ones (threw the others out) they seem to be white,and cracked although i seem to recall the 3rd time it happened it was black/ silver. the first time it was both left and right hand side that blew. The last 3 times it has been just the rhs i got the bulbs from my local mechanic, the first time bought 2, since then i bought them at the servo they where the same looking. 12v p21/5W they didn't have a variety i think they were $3 for the pair.
if it were over charging, bad earth how would i fix? vibrations are never gonna go away, especially on the shit roads Queensland has to offer
i'll have a look and see if it corroded